Life is a game. It is a destiny untold. You win, you lose depending on how you steer, manage and maintain arah tuju hidup. That's the game plan. It can be in anything - studies, work, friendship, relationship. When you are winning and walking away with desired results - always remembers challenges will still await at any corners, any time. The danger is that, it would down you when you least expected. When you know you are losing - the inner strength is much, much needed. You can win even when you feel you are losing. Yang penting remain focussed in what you are supposed to do. Kalau tengah belajar, fokus - tumpuan tak leh lari. Aku selalu kata kat anak-anak, belajar dulu, kejar cita-cita, be what you want to be, where you want to be, ikut kemampuan diri. Maksud aku tu, elak la dari bermain dengan perasaan. Takut disappointed half way and that affects your emotions. Tapi hakikatnya soal hati tak boleh dipaksa. When cupid come at a very challenging period, this is where the inner strength is much, much needed. As a mother aku kena selalu ingatkan anak-anak, tak de niat nak busy-body pun. Failures and disappointments might not go well with them if they are not prepared, if they are not strong and when that happens, I do not want to look back and regret that I had not done or said anything. That's the reason why I am at every corner of their life. Letih - but I have to be there for them. I told en. hubby when he mentioned about me 'encouraging' adik - I had spoken and reminded adik many, many times. She has been a good daughter - I have no regrets. All these years, dia lah anak yang akan bangun malam bertahajjud bersama, mengaji, belajar sehingga masuk subuh. She wanted to feel loved, not by me or the father alone. I know that such time will come, just that it came much earlier. Ready or not, we have to manage it the right way. Se-ikhlasnya aku izinkan because I know she knows all the boundaries, she is a responsible girl. She must take this as a challenge and work doubly hard and eventually emerge a winner, insyaAllah. Kakak ok, she's going into final year at her uni. I am always proud of her. Abang tak yah cerita, dia dah kerja. Responsible enough in all his actions.
This life game is very tricky. You may fall into the tricks and traps anytime. Hanya kekuatan zahir dan batin yang dapat membantu. Iman, hati semua kena kuat. Kita akan sampai ke penghujung - that's the penalty shoot-out of life. The right game plan determines the result. Ok, that is when and where focus, strength and sacrifices are needed. Ready for it?
Ni ceramah free yang tak bertauliah. Adik and kakak dah selalu dengar ceramah macam gini. Asal masuk kereta nak drive ke mana-mana aku ceramah, asal ceramah kami masuk kereta la tu! Bila tanya, "faham?". Angguk je dia orang ni. Agaknya dah letih kot. Hello!! ceramah ni tak perlu bayar ok. Free sokmo. I always say - "kalau mummy dah tak de, you all sure rindu dengar ceramah-ceramah macam gini". So aku letak dalam blog supaya tetap menjadi ingatan anak-anak (kalau blog ni still exists lepas aku dah tak de nanti).
Adik akan kata - "mummy, why are you in the mood of updating your blog, almost every day pulak tu?". I said "you know why". Tak de jawapan pun sebenarnya - saja mood tu datang tiba-tiba.
Apapun, tak kisah la update or not - I love you all.... Good night and sweet dreams - I know someOne will.
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